Inspiring
Quotes
(and a Few
Good Laughs)

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Maya
Angelou
I love to
see a young girl go out and grab the world by the
lapels. Life's a bitch. You've got to go out and
kick ass.
Susan
B. Anthony
If women will not accept
marriage with subjection, nor men proffer it
without, there is, there can be, no alternative.
The women who will not be ruled must live without
marriage.
Join
the union, girls, and together say Equal Pay for
Equal Work.
Sandra
Bartky
Dieting
disciplines the body's hungers: Appetite must be
monitored at all times and governed by an iron
will. Since the innocent need of the organism for
food will not be denied, the body becomes one's
enemy, an alien being bent on thwarting the
disciplinary project. Anorexia nervosa, which has
now assumed epidemic proportions, is to women of
the late twentieth century what hysteria was to
women of an earlier day: the crystallization in a
pathological mode of a widespread cultural
obsession.
Woman
lives her body as seen by another, by an
anonymous patriarchal Other.
The face of the ideally feminine woman must never
display the marks of character, wisdom, and
experience that we so admire in men.
We
women cannot begin the re-vision of our own
bodies until we learn to read the cultural
messages we inscribe upon them daily and until we
come to see that even when the mastery of the
disciplines of femininity produce a triumphant
result, we are still only women.
Normative
femininity is coming more and more to be centered
on woman's body--not its duties and obligations
or even its capacity to bear children, but its
sexuality, more precisely, its presumed
heterosexuality and its appearance... Images of
normative femininity, it might be ventured, have
replaced the religiously oriented tracts of the
past.
Steven
Biko
The most potent weapon in
the hand of the oppressor is the mind of the
oppressed.
Susan
Brownmiller
The gut distaste that women
feel when we look at pornography, a distaste
that, incredibly, it is no longer fashionable to
admit, comes, I think, from the gut knowledge
that we and our bodies are being stripped,
exposed, and contorted for the purpose of
ridicule to bolster that 'masculine esteem' which
gets its kick and sense of power from viewing
females as anonymous, panting playthings, adult
toys, dehumanized objects, to be used, abused,
broken and discarded.
Shirley
Chisholm
As a black person, I am no
stranger to race prejudice. But the truth is that
in the political world I have been far oftener
discriminated against because I am a woman than
because I am black. Prejudice against blacks is
becoming unacceptable although it will take years
to eliminate it. But it is doomed because,
slowly, white America is beginning to admit that
it exists. Prejudice against women is still
acceptable.
Cheryl
Clarke.
For a woman to be a lesbian
in a male-supremacist, capitalist, misogynist,
racist, homophobic, imperialist culture, such as
that of North America, is an act of resistance
Simone
de Beauvoir
On the day when it will be
possible for woman to love not in her weakness
but in her strength, not to escape herself but to
find herself, not to abase herself but to assert
herself -- on that day love will become for her,
as for man, a source of life and not of mortal
danger.
Anarchist
Voltaraine de Cleyre
Let every woman ask
herself: "Why am I the slave of Man? Why is my
brain said not to be the equal of his brain? Why
is my work not paid equally with his? Why must my
body be controlled by my husband? Why may he take
my labor in the household, giving me in exchange
what he deems fit? Why may he take my children
from me? Will he take them away while yet unborn?"
Let every woman ask.
Mary
Daly
..feminism
is a verb; it is female be-ing...constantly
unfolding process. It was/is inevitable that
women who conceive of feminism as a thing, a
state, would come at some point to believe
themselves to have moved 'beyond feminism.' But
if one understands feminism to mean the radical,
ontological process of Realizing female Elemental
potency, one does not 'move beyond' it. One moves
with it.
Barbara
Deming
To resort to power one need
not be violent, and to speak to conscience one
need not be meek. The most effective action both
resorts to power and engages conscience.
Nonviolent actions does not have to get others to
be nice. It can in effect force them to consult
their consciences. Nor does it have to petition
those in power to do something about a situation.
It can face the authorities with a new fact and
say: accept this new situation which we have
created. Vengeance is not the point; change is.
But the trouble is that in most people's minds
the thought of victory and the thought of
punishing the enemy coincide.
Andrea Dworkin
As women, nonviolence must
begin for us in the refusal to be violated, in
the refusal to be victimized. We must find
alternatives to submission, because our
submission -- to rape, to assault, to domestic
servitude, to abuse and victimization of every
sort -- perpetuates violence.
When
I say that we must establish values which
originate in sisterhood, I mean to say that we
must not accept, even for a moment, male notions
of what nonviolence is. Those notions have never
condemned the systematic violence against us. The
men who hold those notoins have never renounced
the male behaviors, privileges, values, and
conceits which are in and of themselves acts of
violence against us.
I'm
a radical feminist. Not the fun kind.
Melissa Etheridge
I can feel that thunder beneath my feet
I sold my soul for freedom
It's lonely but it's sweet.
Susan
Faludi
My goal is to be accused of
being strident.
Elena
Fetherston
Forget the night, my
sisters, take back your minds.
Marilyn
Frye
If what we want is equality
with our white brothers, then what we want is,
among other things, our own firsthand
participation in racial dominance rather than the
secondhand ersatz dominance we get as the
dominant group's women. No wonder such feminism
has no credibility with women of colour.
Indira Gandhi
My grandfather once told me
that there are two kinds of people: those who
work and those who take the credit. He told me to
try to be in the first group; there was less
competition there.
Nikki Giovanni
I
resent people who say writers write from
experience. Writers don't write from experience,
though many are hesitant to admit that they
don't... If you wrote from experience, you'd get
maybe one book, maybe three poems. Writers write
from empathy.
Germaine Greer
Revolution is the festival
of the oppressed.
Eliza
Calvert Hall
Now, some folks has money
to build monuments with -- great, tall, marble
pillars with angels on top of 'em, like you see
in Cave Hill and them big city buryin'-grounds.
And some folks can build churches and schools and
hospitals to keep folks in mind of 'em, but all
the work I've got to leave behind me is jest
these quilts, and sometimes when I'm settin'
here, workin' with my caliker and gingham pieces,
I'll finish off a block, and I laugh and say to
myself, 'Well, there's another stone for the
monument.'
Cynthia
Heimel
Our society has made a
practice of punishing its victims. Not only are
women being punished (still!) for the feminist
movement, but even worse, they are being flayed
alive for feeling weak and dependent and in need
of love. Society has taught women to hate
themselves. Society sucks. Pay it no mind.
Billie Holiday
It's
ill-becoming for an old broad to sing about how
bad she wants it. But occasionally we do.
Lena Horne
You can be up to your
boobies in white satin, with gardenias in your
hair and no sugar cane for miles, but you can
still be working on a plantation.
Luce
Irigaray
Let women tacitly go on
strike, avoid men long enough to learn to defend
their desire notably by their speech, let them
discover the love of other women protected from
that imperious choice of men which puts them in a
position of rival goods, let them forge a social
status which demands recognition, let them earn
their living in order to leave behind their
condition of a prostitute.
Sheila
Jeffreys
Lesbian feminists are the
bad girls who fail to love the male frame of mind
that currently dominates gay and lesbian studies.
Sonia Johnson
It seems to me, therefore,
that if we want a world in which women have
integrity and are independent, self-governing and
untamed -- and patriarchy cannot survive women's
being any of these -- we have to have integrity,
be independent, self-governing and wild right
now. The feminist world is not somewhere off in
the nonexistent future. That world is right now,
or it is never.
Mother
Jones
No matter what the fight,
don't be ladylike! God almighty made women and
the Rockefeller gang of thieves made the ladies.
Martin
Luther King
We will remember not the
words of our enemies, but the silence of our
friends.
Ursula
Le Guin
My imagination makes me
human and makes me a fool; it gives me all the
world and exiles me from it.
Meridel
Le Sueur
The history of an oppressed
people is hidden in the lies and the agreed-upon
myths of its conquerors.
Audre
Lorde
When I speak of
knowledge...I am speaking of that dark and true
depth which understanding serves, waits upon, and
makes accessible through language to ourselves
and others. It is this depth within each of us
that nurtures vision.
Catharine
MacKinnon
One genius of the system we
live under is that the strategies it requires to
survive it from day to day are exactly the
opposite of what is required to change it.
There
is nothing like femininity to dignify one's
indignity as one's identity.
Women have been silenced as
women: we have been told we are stupid because we
are women, told that our thoughts are trivial
because we are women, told that our experiences
as women are unspeakable, told that women can't
speak the language of significance, had our ideas
appropriated by men, only to find those ideas
have suddenly become worthy, even creative.
The right to privacy is a
right of men 'to be let alone' to oppress women
one at a time...It is a very material division
that keeps the private beyond the public redress
and depoliticizes women's subjection within it.
It keeps some men out of the bedrooms of other
men.
Christina
McCall
Scratch any woman deeply
enough and you find a feminist.
Meena,
founder of the Revolutionary Association of the
Women of Afghanistan
My fists are clenched
with fists of thousands of compatriots
To break all these sufferings, all these fetters
of slavery.
I'm the woman who has awoken,
I've found my path and will never return.
Robin
Morgan
Pornography is the theory,
and rape the practice...The violation of an
individual woman is the metaphor
for man's forcing himself on whole nations (rape
as the crux of war), on nonhuman creatures (rape
as the lust behind hunting and related carnage),
and on the planet itself.
I
detest
'vanguarditis.' I never liked it on the Left, and
I find it especially distasteful weaseling its
way into the Women's Movement....The
responsibility of a vanguard...is to speak from,
for, and to ALL of the people who give it
birth...I don't like more radical-than-thou
games. I don't like credentials games,
intimidation-between-women games, or 'you are who
you sleep with' games. I don't like people being
judged by their class background, their sexual
preferences, their race, choice of religion,
marital status...or any other vicious standard of
categorization. I hate such judgments in the male
power system and I hate them in the Women's
Movement. If there must be judgments at all, let
them be not on where a woman is coming from, but
on what she is moving toward; let them be based
on her seriousness, her level of risk, her
commitment, her endurance.
We
are the women men have warned us about.
Holly
Near
I have dreamed on this mountain
Since first I was my mother's daughter
And you can't just take my dreams away
Not with me watching.
Adrienne Rich
Whatever is unnamed,
undepicted in images, whatever is omitted from
biography, censored in collections of letters,
whatever is misnamed as something else, made
difficult-to-come-by, whatever is buried in the
memory by the collapse of meaning under an
inadequate or lying language -- this will become,
not merely unspoken, but unspeakable.
The connections between and
among women are the most feared, the most
problematic, and the most potentially
transforming force on the planet.
In
a society where women entered sexual intercourse
willingly, where adequate contraception was a
genuine social priority, there would be no
'abortion issue'...Abortion is violence...It is
the offspring, and will continue to be the
accuser of a more pervasive and prevalent
violence, the violence of rapism.
Harriet
Rubin
When your absence has the
authority of your presence, that is power.
Nawal
El Saadawi
They said, 'You are a
savage and dangerous woman.' I said, 'I am
speaking the truth. And the truth is savage and
dangerous.'
Sol,
Son of Heart
I
have lots of toys; I just need one more.
Elizabeth
Cady Stanton
Man in his lust has
regulated long enough this whole question of
sexual intercourse. Now let the mother of
mankind, whose prerogative it is to set bounds to
his indulgence, rouse up and give this whole
matter a thorough, fearless examination.
And
thus it ever is: so long as woman labors to
second man's endeavors and exalt his sex above
her own, her virtues pass unquestioned; but when
she dares to demand rights and privileges for
herself, her motives, manners, dress, personal
appearance, and character are subjects for
ridicule and detraction.
Gloria
Steinem
Childbirth is more
admirable than conquest, more amazing than
self-defense, and as courageous as either one.
I don't
breed well in captivity
Ellen Stewart
:Lemme tell you somethin',
baby. Carin's where it's at. Trust me now because
I know what I'm talkin' 'bout - you got a love
for what you're doin' and everythin' else, all
the rest of this cree-a-tivity stuff you're
wonderin' 'bout, baby, it just comes.
Lucy Stone
In education, in marriage,
in religion, in everything, disappointment is the
lot of women. It shall be the business of my life
to deepen this disappointment in every woman's
heart until she bows down to it no longer.
Sojourner
Truth
There is a great stir about colored men getting
their rights, but not a word about the colored
women; and if colored men get their rights, and
not colored women theirs, you see the colored men
will be masters over the women, and it will be
just as bad as it was before. So I am for keeping
the thing going while things are stirring;
because if we wait till it is still, it will take
a great while to get it going again.
Alice Walker
The real revolution is
always concerned with the least glamorous stuff.
With raising a reading level from second grade to
third. With simplifying history and writing it
down...With helping illiterates fill out food
stamp forms -- for they must eat, revolution or
not. The dull, frustrating work with our people
is the work of the black revolutionary artist.
To
the extent that black women dissociate themselves
from the women's movement, they abandon their
responsibilities to women throughout the world.
This is a serious abdication from and misuse of
black herstorical tradition: Harriet Tubman,
Sojourner Truth, Ida B. Wells, and Fannie Lou
Hamer would not have liked it. Nor do I.
Mae
West
Too much of a good thing
can be wonderful.
When
choosing between two evils, I always like to try
the one I've never tried before.
Virginia
Woolf
Literature is strewn with
the wreckage of those who have minded beyond
reason the opinion of others.
War is not women's history.
If
you insist upon fighting to protect me or 'our'
country, let it be understood, soberly and
rationally between us, that you are fighting to
gratify a sex instinct which I cannot share; to
procure benefits which I have not shared and
probably will not share...For...in fact, as a
woman, I have no country.
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